Early months of dating
We like each other’s family a lot, share very similar values and world views, we do hobbies together and travel together and challenge each other intellectually and constructively.
We also have a very healthy sex life, are both financially independent homeowners and have very good careers.
Many of us have heard about the love and attachment hormones like oxytocin and the so-called neurotransmitters like dopamine that get released when we’re in the throes of love.
As one of my clients recently asked me, do they make us see our potential mate through rose coloured glasses? At the end of the day it’s very unlikely that you’re going to act against your better judgement and fall for someone who doesn’t tick most of the boxes.